You brought up the difference in rebounds earlier which also was not great either. I think turnovers are more important with a PG than rebounds are. Again the difference in a assists are irrelevant to me because it's just .5(7.7 to 8.2).And since guys can piled up on assists nowadays(Lebron gets like 7 assists per game), I think anything under 9 assists is nothing special. Westbrook has more weapons on his team(ie. Durant). Deng, Boozer, Noah, Bogans(terrible), Watson,etc. are probably equal to the the guys you listed, because Boozer and Deng underachieves. And when you add Durant that tips the scale.
As far as your 2nd paragraph, I may have exaggerated with Westbrook's mentality. I also don't see why Durant doesn't get the ball more in situations like that, it's the NBA, Durant doesn't have to be wide open, you just gotta get him the ball and let him create a shot. And as far as the lack of offensive flow, that's usually the PG's fault especially with a good offence team like OKC. I think you are making a lot of excuses for RW. I'll take Rose any day over him, though it is close.
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