I never said you WERE an arse, I just said that it was poor form to justify doing something crappy just because "everyone else does".
As Brutus/YC have stated: if you're gonna bail, just bail. Dragging it out only further screws us over as far as prolonging you turning bot and eventually being replaced.
And as YC also said, I thought you wanted a US team - that keeps on being put back the longer you're on in Japan.
http://with-malice.com/ - The half-crazed ramblings of a Lakers fanatic in Japan